instruction manuals.

hey this is my first ever blog, on anything,
me and my best friend have been talking about starting one for weeks so i thought it could go on my bucket list for 2011, so here it is.

So my blog is called instruction manuals, this is because i wish everything came with them and i mean everything! especially chicks, all you girls out there are amazing but extremely confusing haha, now dont worry this isnt going to be a bitch session or anything like that just some of my questions and queries :).

so for some background on where i get most of my info/ questions about my love life i work at a nightclub 2 nights a week as a bartender, but during the week im in the construction industry, i was with my last girlfriend for just under 18 months but we have been broken up a long time, so here we go.

my ex girlfried and i were happy and having fun all of the time, she was a year younger and that was no problem for about a year untill i became the legal age and she still had another year to go, i didnt go out much because she didnt like it but what i did do was get tattoos which were my dream since i would remember, i got them on the morning of my birthday and she didnt like them at all, she didnt speak to me for the whole day and when my party started that night she hung out with her ex bf and his friends and didnt say anything to me, now i dunno if i was just making a big deal out of nothing hence the blogging now but telling someone that you hate their tattoos on the first day they get them is pretty harsh. but im not easily phased with what people think of me and thought she would just get over them, and i thought id made a breakthrough when she said she was looking for tattoo designs for herself, but turns out she doesnt have a problem with tattoos on herself or anyone else but me, i dont understand this can anyone help me out? haha

ok so situation number 2, at the club i get given numbers quite often, but then when trying to pursue them something always comes up about how young i am, (i look a few years older than i am) which i dont overly understand really, because theres nothing they can do that i coulndt as far as age goes, and it doesnt seem like that big of a deal, everyone says to lie about nmy age but im not gunna dig myself a hole like that haha, can someone tell me why a year or 2 younger is such a big deal to girls??

and number 3, once again a girl picked me up at the club while i was working, she was actually the only one i had my eye on that came in for the function that night, so as you can imagine i was shocked but over the moon when she handed me her phone after small chit chat over the bar, so i was speaking to her the next day about the night before and asked her if she wanted to go for coffee, we agreed on today as the date but yesterday i got a message off her which i want someone to explain to me, she asked if it was ok for her friend to come along andf that i could bring a friend too? now that doesnt seem too much like a date to me, is this girl just really shy? or is she just regretting agreeing to see me?

well thats it for now i have to get ready to go see this chick tonight, and pick my friend up on the way haha ill fill you in later :)