friday before work with the bestest friend ever

hello folks, so im in my room with my bestie getting ready for work and she is venting about her situations. they are quite amusing because they are about our mutual guy friend who has many femal qualities, such as raging emotions and hissy fits common to females during their cycle.

no offence to you ladies out there for reffering to it, but you know what im talking about sadly, anyway so we have just gopt back from the movies as well, we saw yogi bear, and it was date number 2 and even with the second date there were still friends present, not sure what it means yet?

we arent exactly looking forward to working tonight because there are a few staff members short and 2 new bar staff to be trained, and our manager is freaking out a little bit ( who i migt add has female tendanmcies as well)
but whho can blame them under that much responsibility, anyway i must leave now because im under threat of castration if i dont get to the club soon.

later gator

00:45 14/1/11

so im back home from my date with that girl and our friends,
it was a really good arvo / night :) im assuming that the friend thing was just because of the shyness but tommorrow i will find out as we have already made plans to see each other then too XD haha

i will let you all know that the past few months i have been really unlucky in this whole department, from rejections to stalkers but it looks like t could start improving, but there is one thing i must have totally down pact which is the "approval".

now for some background, the "approval" for those who dont know is the.. i guess permission that the person closest to you gives you and the candidate to become more than just friends or aquaintances, for the approval to be met there are a few items that must be followed to complete the check list, ill preveiw a few now

1. be with the person while the friend is there
2. be with the person when the friend isnt around
3. talk to the person when the friend is around
4. talk tot he person when the friend isnt around
5. be with the person with their friends
6. have a drink with the person (even the slightest bit of alcohol let people open up)
7. approve on general looks and personality
8. agree that the person will be good for your friend
9. etc

so with all these in the checklist ticked off only then should anything more happen, trust me.. if you try and fight the system, it wont work, ever... and frankly wouldnt even be worth fighting for.

so in conclusion
1. i had a really good time
and 2. best friends come first, dont fight them O.O!

instruction manuals.

hey this is my first ever blog, on anything,
me and my best friend have been talking about starting one for weeks so i thought it could go on my bucket list for 2011, so here it is.

So my blog is called instruction manuals, this is because i wish everything came with them and i mean everything! especially chicks, all you girls out there are amazing but extremely confusing haha, now dont worry this isnt going to be a bitch session or anything like that just some of my questions and queries :).

so for some background on where i get most of my info/ questions about my love life i work at a nightclub 2 nights a week as a bartender, but during the week im in the construction industry, i was with my last girlfriend for just under 18 months but we have been broken up a long time, so here we go.

my ex girlfried and i were happy and having fun all of the time, she was a year younger and that was no problem for about a year untill i became the legal age and she still had another year to go, i didnt go out much because she didnt like it but what i did do was get tattoos which were my dream since i would remember, i got them on the morning of my birthday and she didnt like them at all, she didnt speak to me for the whole day and when my party started that night she hung out with her ex bf and his friends and didnt say anything to me, now i dunno if i was just making a big deal out of nothing hence the blogging now but telling someone that you hate their tattoos on the first day they get them is pretty harsh. but im not easily phased with what people think of me and thought she would just get over them, and i thought id made a breakthrough when she said she was looking for tattoo designs for herself, but turns out she doesnt have a problem with tattoos on herself or anyone else but me, i dont understand this can anyone help me out? haha

ok so situation number 2, at the club i get given numbers quite often, but then when trying to pursue them something always comes up about how young i am, (i look a few years older than i am) which i dont overly understand really, because theres nothing they can do that i coulndt as far as age goes, and it doesnt seem like that big of a deal, everyone says to lie about nmy age but im not gunna dig myself a hole like that haha, can someone tell me why a year or 2 younger is such a big deal to girls??

and number 3, once again a girl picked me up at the club while i was working, she was actually the only one i had my eye on that came in for the function that night, so as you can imagine i was shocked but over the moon when she handed me her phone after small chit chat over the bar, so i was speaking to her the next day about the night before and asked her if she wanted to go for coffee, we agreed on today as the date but yesterday i got a message off her which i want someone to explain to me, she asked if it was ok for her friend to come along andf that i could bring a friend too? now that doesnt seem too much like a date to me, is this girl just really shy? or is she just regretting agreeing to see me?

well thats it for now i have to get ready to go see this chick tonight, and pick my friend up on the way haha ill fill you in later :)