00:45 14/1/11

so im back home from my date with that girl and our friends,
it was a really good arvo / night :) im assuming that the friend thing was just because of the shyness but tommorrow i will find out as we have already made plans to see each other then too XD haha

i will let you all know that the past few months i have been really unlucky in this whole department, from rejections to stalkers but it looks like t could start improving, but there is one thing i must have totally down pact which is the "approval".

now for some background, the "approval" for those who dont know is the.. i guess permission that the person closest to you gives you and the candidate to become more than just friends or aquaintances, for the approval to be met there are a few items that must be followed to complete the check list, ill preveiw a few now

1. be with the person while the friend is there
2. be with the person when the friend isnt around
3. talk to the person when the friend is around
4. talk tot he person when the friend isnt around
5. be with the person with their friends
6. have a drink with the person (even the slightest bit of alcohol let people open up)
7. approve on general looks and personality
8. agree that the person will be good for your friend
9. etc

so with all these in the checklist ticked off only then should anything more happen, trust me.. if you try and fight the system, it wont work, ever... and frankly wouldnt even be worth fighting for.

so in conclusion
1. i had a really good time
and 2. best friends come first, dont fight them O.O!